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浣涓扮浜哄锛韬竟杩绉缂轰ㄦ浜哄锛冲姝や瑙f村锛
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璇锛涓绉
蹇浜哄涔缂杈
浣锛Susan Krauss
Brookes, J. (2015). The effect of overt and covert narcissism on self-esteem and self-efficacy beyond self-esteem. Personality And Individual Differences, 85172-175. doi:10. 1016/j. paid. 2015.05.013
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201511/4-signs-someone-is-probably-insecure
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