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璇绘 10

辨澶浜╃澶澹筹涓搞瀹戒负浣㈡ラ╋涓锛╋涓ュ悍锛娉娉涔浜わ涓哥х浼浼达椤烘浠浜猴涓蹇璺锛浜娑ｏ涓钩骞哥т瀹 浜ㄥ╁.

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充辩甯哥ㄨ姹娑电浜稿澶浜洪娲诲璧便遍便瀛便便洪便璧便缁ф块便便璧㈤便杈便便便娌￠扁

浣板辨涔锛褰浠ㄧ娲婚璇村伴辩跺锛姣ぉ澶уぇ灏氦璐у瀹浣涔锛卞纭锛惰璐烽板锛杩储瀵锛姣濡浠涓汉昏浜э杩借薄扁锛涔灏辨㈡璇寸诲锛

浜瑗块惧ぇ瀛涓村绌惰冲涓涓充扁璐ㄦх绌讹卞浜浜烘ヨ板涔

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褰浠浠濂介锛瀵圭瀹朵汉杩琛瀵兼璇讹村浜轰滑璋璁洪卞璋璁哄蜂澶卞缁浜浠朵涓凤缁浠浠变釜纭涓涓绯诲借浜哄寮鹃锛涓瓒冲绌洪寸鸿繁浜

濡涓锛

1. 璇疯璋辨崇涓浜╁勾缁с浣胯充锛卞ㄤ娲婚崇浠涔锛璧风风浣

2. 究璇磋锛浣瑙寰繁村娆遍憋spender锛杩憋saver锛锛

3. 娲讳腑涓剧帮璋辨跺浼璁╀汉浠句互娇浣戒芥堪轰剧浜充辨归㈡杩涓娆¤伴惧璇锛

4. ㄤ瀹跺涵锛浣浠璁ㄨ辩靛浣锛稿/寮濮濡/浜叉锛锛ㄤ濡浠繁缁寤虹瀹跺涵锛璁ㄨ辩靛浣

5. 浣朵浠涔充辩浜锛姣濡朵涓浜充辩瑙蹇锛

6. 浣瑙寰杩娆¤璇杩绋凤浣ヤ澶杩娆¤璇杩绋凤

娉绌惰ㄤ欢璇璁胯瀵硅灏涓哄寸杩浜灞寮锛涔浠ヨ浠浠涓澶浜绌惰虹璁般瀵硅褰冲璁胯褰借瀛杞寸

ㄨ锛绠瑕姒袱涓璁胯浜锛浠ヨ澶у瑙ｅ璇瑰锛

靛か浠濡诲姝ｅㄤ互蹇搴Н绱涓涓绗娼ㄧ宸ㄩ浜э灞浜淇涓瀵浜衡浣浠瀵硅涓绛鹃甯镐锛涓哄ㄧ骞存舵锛浠瀹朵汉瀵璞涓绉涓汉惧ㄧ奸涓ユ惧烽锋

浜靛か辫捣ュ灏卞按灏浠涓挎宠捣繁ョ憋浜轰浠绮炬瑙帮绉涓诲浣瀹跺涵ㄧ缁瀹ㄥ瀛瀹杩涓涓轰浠崇郴宸ュ姝わ涓哄充究涓汉绉搴涓锛浠涔藉板跺惰璐峰璧碉涓涓涓繁璞搴浠灏卞涓浜浜

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2. 间ユ病繁ｈ便杩濂归绂诲璐㈤【负濂瑰琛ヨ创娲汇濂规涓朵贡涔拌。瀛琛涓猴浠ュ浜锛杩涓逛ス濡濡濮濮璋ㄦ娑璐逛剁稿

涓变コ块绮惧╂撅濂瑰凡变涓涓缇绔绋冲濂圭碉浣存病璧蜂ㄣ浜ス惧浜浣浠ョ帮濂硅遍卞娴姘达浣卞村棣濂逛互寰瓒抽娆㈡锛虫病藉褰卞ｄ瀵瑰スヨ瑕浜轰

舵 1 瀹浣楠

璞″绌跺锛跨浜轰楠涓瑰涓锛跨瑰村瀹界瑙瀵朵腑涓浣绌惰堪浜挎舵跺扮剁濂圭纭剁锛ｆ渚胯蛋ㄥ杩涔扮锋椋╃风烽ｉ寰扮娆惧璁板濉琚纭涓浜灏娈╋ユ灏卞娲浜

ㄥ涓涓璁胯姹ゅ蹇锛涓矾浜哄ㄤ伴杩浜涓缇跺堡濮涓澶╅╀堕撮藉ㄦ绱㈣崇璺汉浜浠锛跺纭烘ョ涓″扮

浣浠ョ板跨涓辩崇郴锛寰寰涓浜虹缁炽

舵 2 瀹

婧蹇涔娌宠涓锛璁胯芥妤璁板辨璐电锛圭涓瑗靛か璁板哥哥棣惰舵堕扮界‖甯锛锛杩浜寮芥璋纭锛浣涓哄瀛绠存扮介风锛娆эㄧ浣涓灏椋穿锛烽风杩ｄ釜娌哥哥纭惰崇浼濂浜锛灏辨哥稿ㄤ圭缁锛

界跺靛か瀵归ｇ辩浠峰兼病涓姣辨蹇碉璇翠瀹惧锛浣浣涓虹瀹卞寰充氦浠峰硷充浜煎淇涓瑗裤

舵 3 璐у

涓ワ跨浼娓伴卞瑕锛绉浠ヨュ辨绁濂涓涓姹ゅ璇翠浠ュ浼绌虹跺绌虹澶达㈤憋涔扮锛澶靛奖瀛╁锛

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褰瀛╁卞浠ユ㈡ュ朵╁锛瀹浣涓衡瀹绁绉浠峰煎氨娓娴澶变讹褰浠浠繁浠ヤ负繁㈡ユ宠涓瑗挎讹浠浠灞轰涓汉解瑙锛杩绉瑙琚瀛妫涓烘汉绗涓灞舵锛ゅ瀵硅锛瀵艰

舵 4 涓瑗

褰瀛╁瀛杩锛妾按绌虹跺锛寰卞充杩涓瑗匡My-ness锛姒蹇靛氨虹浜澶㈤ｄ朵濡崇遍戒涓锛瀹璇达

灏跺缁涓涓妾涓锛璧ョ辫ㄨ。涓涓姘寸瀛娆℃浠ワ濡瑕卞涔扮锛濂逛卞垮轰寮缁楝间娇绁宸伴讳涓涓锛灞舵ｄ釜棣姘寸瀛棣筹浜杞韩澶у杩憋浜濂癸缁杩琚棰瀵逛锛濡锋夸便

涓剧猴瀵归辩充究ㄥㄩ戒娉炬腑板涓浜锛涔璁镐瀹朵凤浣杩风瀛╁缁涓姝涓

浠涓舵寮濮锛卞琚ヨ浜瀹富╁璁ゅ寰杩涓灞缁版骞翠互浜浜洪『╃存板浜锛杩浜浜洪复璇稿茬

＄灏澶у跺氨寮濮璧变锛杩澶чㄥ╁杩涓涓规璐凤ユ瀹剁涓濂逛村拌繁跺ュ樊涓澶浠ラ惰辨ｄ釜规璐烽瀛娆鹃戒ㄦ蹇涓烘

杩璁╀汉妫涓璇锛宠薄涓芥涓虹繁锛灏辨

舵 5 瀹堕

褰瀛╁寮濮瀵归辨姒蹇碉浠浠氨寮濮瑙瀵稿澶便＄灏朵翰澶卞浜跺ョ涓澶фユ锛ㄥ寮棰绠藉浜涓澶у锛

浠浠浜涓锛瑕涔缁х画ㄧ绔瀛″康涔垮锛涓杩垮锛杞瀛°稿浼璇㈤浠涓瀛瑙封ｆ跺瀛＄澧瀵规浠ヨ撮瑕锛浠ワ浠浜翠釜杩绋藉瀹锛娌′汉璇磋逛激蹇锛涓虹ラ涓藉浠诲繁濂借遍变

涓涓璇娲杈剧朵翰濡诲瀛锛浣濂逛滑寰寮猴

濡ラ瀵逛缁浠ユ浠氨濡濡瀛浜浠涔藉甫缁浠伯椋娴革浠涔涓琛浠ラ 500 缇涓涓琛ュ╄藉伴堕璐с浣锛讳锛澶у颁汉瀹ㄤ娲绘瑰灏界杩涓や釜渚瀛芥杈 drama锛浣涔剧ず浜瀛╁璁よ伴卞ㄥ瑙诧澶㈠ぇ涓崇郴浠浠㈡㈡伴卞浠ユ峰府浠浠寰杩绂昏繁宠娲汇

舵 6 瀹朵腑锛

哥储轰涓涓舵绛妗跨涔涓浜涓涓鹃锛濡浣杩卞瑙ｅ搴繁ㄧぞ浼涓瀹浣

ㄨ浣澧涓婚垮ぇ瀛╁锛戒ヨ瑁瀹跺涵瀛钩舵ラ濡濡缂哄瀹跺涵浜灏变瀵瑰钩￠诲姣ぉ复ュ父涓ャ杩涓绋瀵瑰瀛瀹跺涵ヨ介芥锛姣绔瀹ㄧ浣缂浣瀵规ュ芥х宠薄

舵7 剁骇璁ゅ

澶чㄥ琚芥舵妤拌璇伴剁骇瀛ㄤ互瀹瀵逛娈靛崇郴褰卞锛骞翠互藉ㄣ绌惰〃藉コ澶уㄦ璐硅涓虹ㄦ轰锛ゅ村杩芥瀹＄灏辨浠ュ锛杩24%浜轰浠版浜у澹帮崇炬便杩涓ぇ瀛瀵硅韩浠藉颁璁ゅ涓瀹炽

浠瑰版病璇㈤璇充剁骇ㄧ缁锛浣浠浠璁虹骞存浜杩绋涓浠锛ｄ存辩琚惧浜璐㈠杞绘贰锛姣濡涓惧轰涓浠存辩浜轰э跺繁瀹浣涓骇剁骇

瀵逛浠ヨ浼间腑浜ч剁骇涓猴ㄩ㈠朵浜轰峰氨ㄧ锛ㄦ村绔绂荤

濡浣剧杩ㄨ瀹ら锛浣芥斤充究ㄥ浠ュ蹇ㄨ瀹ら锛褰娌荤甯ヨ璁ㄨ扁崇讹涔ｄ瀹规灞淇涓瀹锛濡缂轰缁ｅ锛剁宠胯涓璋锛锛

ㄤ寰涓澶璐圭ㄧ跺灏村艾锛

瀵逛涓缁涓鸿/缂哄腑浠璐圭ヨゆ锛

ㄦ鸿繁瑕楂惰垂舵句负

瑗块剧蹇娌荤甯 Richard Trachtman 颁浣ヨ锛蹇浠 MBA 椤圭涓浠琚涓涓╃浣锛涓杈规寮洪锛ヤ赴浣锛涓浠藉伐浣稿杞绘撅浣跺ュ钩骞炽不涓繁ワ浠浠寮璧锋ヨ蹇茬娣卞辩垫版ヨ蹇蹇璇缇绘у浜浜涓功辩蹇锛璁ㄨ辫濡浣娓ㄧ娲荤澶锛濉浜轰滑淇′话搴琛涓恒涓瑙充翰瀵崇郴锛涓村宸ヤ娉ㄦ辩褰㈠

ㄨ瀹ゅ锛璋璁洪辩伴鹃涓ㄥ归

绠￠灏辨朵腑涔涓锛杩璁镐崇郴涓浠峰兼╋浜瀹跺涵か濡诲卞璐硅浜绠锛杩涓藉硅测圭舵浠ｄ负绠＄ㄦ绌朵腑锛硷灏辨ｄ釜涓杈瀛娌¤繁璧辫锛瑙寰涓涓汉涓搴璇ュ浼翠荆娣峰璧浜р褰濂圭鸿璇濂硅繁灏辨涔骞茬跺锛濂规缁х扮浜杩涔虹煎蹇娣卞瀵逛繁汉绘椿跺寰涓瀹

舵锛涓辨崇淇′换寰瀹规琚村涔瑕绱褰琚辩汉锛村瑙辨病х害瀹瑰辨讹寰寰灏变ㄦ淇′换姣濡靛か辩诲涔版ュ父ㄥ村浠ㄦュ锛灏卞涓婊°杩扁瑰澶锛充究缁缁朵浜哄浠瑕х瑰瑰娇ㄥ褰杩界淮绯讳俊浠伙ラ濡姝わ浜轰滑灏变版璁躲澶辨涓淇′换

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寮锯涓洪辨澶灏戒按灏缇绘筹瑰浜轰滑缁跺锛浣浣浠ユ冲娉璁╁璇浜锛姣濡ㄦ瀛褰㈢瑰60宀涓藉繁浠涓璧锋跨讹濂圭ч惧板澶┿濂藉ㄥス朵汉板ㄩ欢琛ㄨ揪浜繁缇э缂瑙ｄ褰氦璋

1/3骞翠汉璁や负变唬琛ㄧ富瀹ㄦ锛

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濡涓瑷锛浜轰灞轰澶辩椋硷杩涓逛浠璇涓氨浠ュ绉垮ㄤ富涔辫濂充汉锛浼瀵规浠瑙璇璇淬＄灏版扮稿锛濂瑰涓鸿繁瀵规扮撅浜浠轰裤娣卞伙剁充哥剧

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浣戒互涓轰娴灞澶ㄨ〃璞″氨╁凡褰诲涓汉锛浣濡浣瀵归变绯诲拷ョ冲锛瀹瀵瑰崇郴楠瑙浣澶ㄦ浜鸿蹇浠峰肩澶锛濡涓辨蹇搴寮澶崇郴锛璁镐澶卞存繁荤瑙ｈ繁轰

甯浣涔藉涓绌剁绌惰涓凤㈠璐ㄧ浜虹兢锛淇褰兼惧搴辩规堕村鹃卞ㄤ浠浜鸿韩涓缁锛涔璁歌戒负浣浠惧颁浜遍涔澶锛璧涓璇ㄥ涓板风璐ㄥ般

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浜轰滑辫寰寰涔缁揣瀵╋虫ヤ瑙ｄ涓杩濂ョ锛

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