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浜浠跺ㄧ涓寮璧风锛

涔涓灏缃琛ㄧず锛繁璺峰镐技缁锛

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浠澶╋浠氨ヨ涓绮剧村锛瀹浼浠涔褰卞锛浠ュ扮簿绁村浠璇ユ峰锛甯浠ュ府╁姝ょ被浜浠剁

01.

浠涔簿绁村锛

绮剧村锛psychological abuse锛浠浜虹绮剧藉村锛瀵逛浜虹韬浼ゅ琛涓恒涓璁や负璇濞渚颈浼炬跺瑙绛琛涓恒绮剧村跺借浼撮韬村锛K. Daniel & Roland. D , 2001锛

绮剧村涓浠ュ涓鸿璇村瑷璇村涓ょ被

瑷璇村

浼鹃杩瀵硅瀵逛浜洪绮剧浼ゅ锛璇琚浜烘ュ板ㄦ绫绘俱杩绉浜ゆ琛涓哄芥Н涔芥锛蜂琛ㄧ涓哄璐ｃ杈遍璐

缇芥炬杩杩蜂椤瑰楠锛瀵3,346缇界舵杩琛ㄥ戒唬琛ㄦф锋锛缁琛ㄦ63锛浜烘ュ浜涓娆℃澶娆″澶存诲讳浠讹Richard J. Gelles et al.,1991锛

瑷璇村甯镐翠负甯歌锛杩瑷璇〃杈剧ゆ寰寰翠负存锛ㄦ缁氦涓涔村瀵艰翠琛涓哄锛姣濡伴讳腑峰ㄦ村己瑰ヨ烩缁繁姐

瑷璇村

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02.

濡浣浜绮剧村锛戒颁涔?

浣芥瑙拌娲浜

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浣芥拌浜

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浣芥娉涓浜哄缓绔浜插崇郴

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03.

绮剧村戒浠涔锛

寰澶缁杩韬村绮剧村浜猴借涓虹簿绁村甯ョ村绯绯锛褰朵渚澶锛浣荤ヨ锛绮剧村浼浣夸娣辨繁繁锛Evans , 2012锛锛挎浠ュ锛浼浜х村涓ラ蹇

浣骞存骞哥锛骞跺甫ユ缁

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戒澧缃规ｄ汉奸纰椋

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杩浜绌剁琛ㄦ绔ュ勾杈遍芥╀浜绫诲绮剧剁灞

浣戒浼涓轰涓借

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04.

㈠绮剧村锛浠锛

淇＄簿绁村褰琚璐ｇ

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